3-Minute Exhaustion Relief
Time needed: 3 minutes (1 minute each)
Setting: When depleted, end of demanding day
Purpose: Gentle transition from overwhelm to rest
1. Permission Pause (60 seconds)
What: Find comfortable spot, place hand on chest or belly. Whisper "I notice I'm exhausted" three times, each time softer. Let out long sigh.
Notice: Where exhaustion sits in body, any resistance to acknowledging fatigue, what most needs soothing
Why: Validates experience, reduces fighting fatigue, begins gentle shutdown
2. Energy Inventory (60 seconds)
What: Briefly scan what depleted you today. Name (silently or aloud) top 3 energy drains. For each, say "I'm letting this go for now" while opening and closing hands.
Notice: Which demands feel heaviest, where you're still carrying tension, what needs releasing
Why: Creates boundary between day and rest, reduces mental load, enables transition
3. Minimum Nurture (60 seconds)
What: Choose ONE tiny nurturing action for next 30 minutes - something requiring near-zero energy (glass of water, feet up wall, fresh air, gentle music)
Notice: What your depleted system most needs, smallest action that would help
Why: Makes self-care manageable when exhausted, prevents total shutdown